Thursday, August 22, 2013

Never Alone

So I taught Relief Society about a month ago, and I've been meaning to put up a few quotes from some General Conference talks that especially inspired me. The topic was that because of the Atonement of Jesus Christ, we never have to be alone if we CHOOSE to come unto him. I've discovered that as I get older, there are many different phases of life when we as women can feel alone. Miscarriages, infertility, being a new mom home alone all day, being a newly-wed and never seeing your husband because of school and work, divorce, all your children leaving the house and becoming and "empty-nester", being a missionary in a foreign place, health problems, moving some where new, endless dates and never finding the right guy... I'm sure the list can go on. Though I haven't experienced all of these, I know they are very real scenarios that many face.

However, we don't have to dwell on this feeling of being alone! We are never alone! There are so many good things we can do to serve others around us. And we always have a Savior who loves us and NEVER leaves us alone!

I hope you enjoy these quotes as much as I do!


"The Crimson Trail in Logan Canyon is one of my favorite hikes. The main part of the trail creeps along the top of tall limestone cliffs and offers beautiful vistas of the canyon and valley below. Getting to the top of the cliffs isn’t easy, however. The trail there is a constant climb; and just before reaching the top, the climber encounters the steepest part of the trail; and views of the canyon are hidden by the cliffs themselves. The final exertion is more than worth the effort because once the climber is on top, the views are breathtaking. The only way to see the views is to make the climb. A pattern in the scriptures and in life shows that many times the darkest, most dangerous tests immediately precede remarkable events and tremendous growth. After much tribulation come the blessings."
  - Paul V. Johnson, More than Conquerers Through Him That Loved Us.



"At times it may seem that our trials are focused on areas of our lives and parts of our souls with which we seem least able to cope. Since personal growth is an intended outcome of these challenges, it should come as no surprise that the trials can be very personal—almost laser guided to our particular needs or weaknesses. And no one is exempt, especially not Saints striving to do what’s right. Some obedient Saints may ask, “Why me? I’m trying to be good! Why is the Lord allowing this to happen?” The furnace of affliction helps purify even the very best of Saints by burning away the dross in their lives and leaving behind pure gold. Even very rich ore needs refining to remove impurities. Being good is not enough. We want to become like the Savior, who learned as He suffered “pains and afflictions and temptations of every kind." 
- Paul V. Johnson, More than Conquerers Through Him That Loved Us.

Whenever I hear the word laser, I think of Buzz Light-Year off of Toy Story! So I just have this image of buzz lightyear, pointing this laser straight into my soul! These “laser guided” trials we experience can make us feel alone, because they are so tailored to our “personal growth” to help us become more like the savior. 



"Now I speak very carefully, even reverently, of what may have been the most difficult moment in all of this solitary journey to Atonement. I speak of those final moments for which Jesus must have been prepared intellectually and physically but which He may not have fully anticipated emotionally and spiritually—that concluding descent into the paralyzing despair of divine withdrawal when He cries in ultimate loneliness, “My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?” 

The loss of mortal support He had anticipated, but apparently He had not comprehended this. Had He not said to His disciples, “Behold, the hour … is now come, that ye shall be scattered, every man to his own, and shall leave me alone: and yet I am not alone, because the Father is with me” and “The Father hath not left me alone; for I do always those things that please him”?

With all the conviction of my soul I testify that He did please His Father perfectly and that a perfect Father did not forsake His Son in that hour. Indeed, it is my personal belief that in all of Christ’s mortal ministry the Father may never have been closer to His Son than in these agonizing final moments of suffering. Nevertheless, that the supreme sacrifice of His Son might be as complete as it was voluntary and solitary, the Father briefly withdrew from Jesus the comfort of His Spirit, the support of His personal presence. It was required, indeed it was central to the significance of the Atonement, that this perfect Son who had never spoken ill nor done wrong nor touched an unclean thing had to know how the rest of humankind—us, all of us—would feel when we did commit such sins. For His Atonement to be infinite and eternal, He had to feel what it was like to die not only physically but spiritually, to sense what it was like to have the divine Spirit withdraw, leaving one feeling totally, abjectly, hopelessly alone.

But Jesus held on. He pressed on. The goodness in Him allowed faith to triumph even in a state of complete anguish. The trust He lived by told Him in spite of His feelings that divine compassion is never absent, that God is always faithful, that He never flees nor fails us. When the uttermost farthing had then been paid, when Christ’s determination to be faithful was as obvious as it was utterly invincible, finally and mercifully, it was “finished.”

Against all odds and with none to help or uphold Him, Jesus of Nazareth, the living Son of the living God, restored physical life where death had held sway and brought joyful, spiritual redemption out of sin, hellish darkness, and despair. With faith in the God He knew was there, He could say in triumph, “Father, into thy hands I commend my spirit. Brothers and sisters, one of the great consolations is that because Jesus walked such a long, lonely path utterly alone, we do not have to do so."

Elder Holland- None Were With Him



Friday, August 16, 2013

F-R-I-E-N-D-S

 

So Friends is one of my go to things to watch when I need a boost in the middle of Friday afternoon and can only think about the hours until I'm free from my desk for the weekend. 
I can always count on FRIENDS for a good "laugh until I'm crying" moment. So I thought I'd share a few of my fav's lately.

These are four scenes I can't stop laughing about. 

PIVOT


Nestle Toulouse



Bla Blar Blarg



It's Not a Cat


Happy Friday!

Friday, July 12, 2013

Grabbin' That Purple Hat

 

A Woman's Lifeline


Age 3: She looks at herself and sees a queen.

Age 8: She looks at herself and sees Cinderella.

Age 15: She looks at herself and sees an ugly duckling (Mom, I can't go to school looking like this today!)

Age 20: She looks at herself and sees "too fat/too thin, too short/too tall, too straight/too curly" but decides she's going out anyway.

Age 30: She looks at herself and sees "too fat/too thin, too short/too tall, too straight/too curly" but decides she doesn't have time to fix it so she's going out anyway.

Age 40: She looks at herself and sees "too fat/too thin, too short/too tall, too straight/too curly" but says "At least I am clean," and goes out anyway.

Age 50: She looks at herslef and says, "I am what I am" and goes wherever she wants to go.

Age 60: She looks at herself and reminds herself of all the people who can't even see themselves in the mirror. Goes out and conquers the world.

Age 70: She looks at herself and sees wisdom, laughter, and ability and goes out and enjoys life.

Age 80: Doesn't bother to look.  Just puts on a purple hat and goes out to have fun with the world.

The moral is, maybe we should all grab that purple hat a little earlier! 

(Ye Shall Bear Record of Me, "Here Am I, Send Me")


Monday, July 8, 2013

~Persuasion~

Well it's official. I just finished my first Jane Austen novel, Persuasion... and I LOVED it!


A portrait of Jane Austen

Persuasion

Anne Elliott and Fredrick Wentworth were once lovers 8 1/2 years ago.  Anne was young and persuaded by those around her that they should not marry due to his lack of fortune.  Of course, 8 1/2 years later, Fredrick comes back into her life as Captain Wentworth and with a handsome fortune... but are those feelings still there? Could he ever forgive her for letting the persuasion of others separate them?

SPOILER ALERT: This is the best part of the book. Captain Wentworth writes Anne a letter declaring his feelings... ah it's so good!

"I can listen no longer in silence. I must speak to you by such means as are within my reach.  You pierce my soul.  I am half agony, half hope.  Tell me not that I am too late, that such precious feelings are gone forever.  I offer myself to you again with a heart even more your own that when you almost broke it, eight yeas and a half ago.  Dare not say that man forgets sooner than woman, that his love has an earlier death. I have loved none but you.  Unjust I may have been, weak, and resentful I have been, but never inconstant.  You alone have brought me to Bath. For you alone, I think and plan.  Have you not seen this? Can you fail to have understood my wishes? I had not waited even these ten days, could I have read your feelings, as I think you must have penetrated mine. I can hardly write. I am hearing something which overpowers me. You sink your voice, but I can distinguish the tones of that voice when they would be lost on others.  Too good, too excellent creature! You do justice, indeed. You do believe that there is true attachment and constancy among men.  Believe it to be most fervent and most undeviating in F.W. (Fredrick Wentworth)

I must go, uncertain of my fate; but I shall return hither, or follow your party, as soon as possible.  A word, a look, will be enough to decide whether I enter your father's house this evening or never."

I'm personally a sucker for love letters.  There is nothing better than being able to read and re-read the feelings of someone who loves you. There are things that come out on paper that sometimes aren't spoken through mouth. It's so much more sentimental that someone took the time to WRITE to write their feelings down.

"Who can be in doubt of what followed? When any two young people take it into their heads to marry, they are pretty sure by perseverance to carry their point, be they ever so poor, or ever so imprudent, or ever so little likely to be necessary to each others ultimate comfort."

True love is out there people, and I'm just so happy I found it. And if you haven't read Jane Austen yet, go pick up one of her books (along with a dictionary because she sure uses some fancy words!)


Wednesday, July 3, 2013

Land of the Free


"You have to love a nation that celebrates its independence every July 4th , not with a parade of guns, tanks, and soldiers who file by the White House in a show of strength and muscle, but with family picnics where kids throw Frisbees, the potato salad gets iffy, and the flies die from happiness.  You may think you have overeaten, but it is patriotism."  
~Erma Bombeck



Freedom is nothing but a chance to be better.  ~Albert Camus

"Everything that is really great and inspiring is created by the individual who can labor in freedom." ~Albert Einstein

"America was not built on fear. America was built on courage, on imagination and an unbeatable determination to do the job at hand."~ H.S. Truman



America is the greatest, freest and most decent society in existence. It is an oasis of goodness in a desert of cynicism and barbarism. This country, once an experiment unique in the world, is now the last best hope for the world. ~ Dinesh D'Souza


Let freedom ring! ~ Unknown

God bless America.
Land that I love.
Stand beside her, and guide her,
Through the night with the light from above.
From the mountains, to the prairies,
To the ocean, white with foam.
God bless America! My home, sweet home,
God bless America! My home, sweet home.

Author: Irving Berlin


Monday, July 1, 2013

Waterslide + Weight = Whiplash


Our apartment is on the third (top) floor of our apartment building and it's just TOO hot to handle! Thankfully we have purchased a Pass of all Passes so this weekend we decided it would be the perfect day to beat the heat by taking a little trip down to Seven Peaks in Salt Lake.


Without realizing it, this was a first for Dan and I in our relationship (side-note: I love those moments of "firsts" you get to experience with your spouse). We had never ridden on a water slide together!  So Dan and I, along with Dan's youngest sister Laura got ourselves a three-man tube to ride the water slides with.

The very first slide we went on was called "Downpour"... little did I know this slide was going to temporarily rain on my parade.


 Laura sat in the front, I was in the middle, Dan in the back. When the lifeguard gave us the okay to go, Dan jumped on the back of the tube to give us a solid start down the slide.

However, this plan wasn't so great.  We came to the first turn in the slide pretty quickly and Dan was still getting himself situated on the tube. Due to Dan still flopping around on the back of the tube, we flipped, and flipped fast and hard!  My head hit the side of the waterslide, and then my neck was crushed by the weight of the tube flipping on top of it. OUCH.

We were determined to make to down the slide on the tube, so the three of us got back on the tube and pushed off.   Things went much better down the slide until we got to the bottom.

You know how at the bottom of each water slide there is a splash pool to land in? Well I don't think anyone ever calculated how much longer it takes three people to stop at the bottom of this slide.  It was at least 30 feet long, but when we came whizzing out, we cleared the ENTIRE pool going full speed ahead! We weren't decreasing in speed at all when we slammed in the cement sidewalk in front of the pool! The lifeguard was quite taken back by the whole scene, and the guy that Laura ran into on the sidewalk as she flew out of the tube was pretty alarmed as well.

Three lessons learned from this:

#1- Read those annoying signs at the front of each slide. They say important things like "the heaviest person should always ride in the front of the tube"... who knew?

#2- After severe whiplash from a tube with your husband landing on your head, and then slamming into the side of the cement sidewalk, take 4 Ibuprofen and give yourself an hour of rest... you will be able to ride again and finish the day strong. (However 4 Ibuprofen will need to be taken three times a day for at least three days after)

#3- When riding with your husband on a water slide for the first time, calculate the effects of his weight and yours so you can be a little more prepared! Speed, stopping time, and injuries are increased.